Japanese schools call the language your child speaks at home the 母語
(bogo, mother tongue) and the culture that goes with it 母文化
(bobunka). When a child grows up in Japan, that language becomes a
継承語 (keishōgo, heritage language): something inherited rather than
lived in all day. MEXT's handbook for schools receiving foreign children
says what schools should do about it, and it is less than most families
expect.
What MEXT tells schools
The handbook treats learning Japanese as compulsory for school and the
home language as important alongside it, then warns how hard both is:
Finally, the handbook asks schools to help children feel proud of their
origins: 自分の母語、母文化、母国に対して誇りを持って生きられるような配慮が必要となります。
What a public school will and will not do
Will: teach Japanese as a special curriculum, decided by the principal
(see Japanese-language lessons at a public school);
greet your child in their language on day one (the handbook suggests
母語と日本語、両方の挨拶で迎える); and, where staff can, assess your child
in the home language. MEXT's DLA assessment has a mother-tongue version
in Portuguese, Chinese, Filipino, Vietnamese, Spanish, English, Nepali
and Russian. Some boards list mother-tongue volunteers; Yokohama's does.
Will not: teach your language, run a bilingual class, or adjust the
English lessons to a child who already speaks English. Families report
their English-speaking child is bored in English class or used as the
teacher's helper. Note the handbook's statistic: about 80 percent of
foreign children needing Japanese support speak Portuguese, Chinese,
Filipino or Spanish at home. An English-first family is unusual, and the
school's "home language" experience is often not with English.
The trap: both languages look fine
The handbook's own warning to teachers describes the trap exactly:
It goes on that such a child often has not reached, in either language,
the level needed to build school knowledge, and that parents find out at
進学 time and are shocked. It also notes that children who arrive young
tend to forget the home language, and that talking to their own parents
then becomes hard.
A separate point from the DLA material: a concept learned in one
language transfers to the other (its example is "global warming" in
Portuguese helping the Japanese word). Dropping the home language to
"make room" for Japanese does not help the Japanese.
Why it matters later
The routes that reward a kept-up language are concrete.
Mid-year transfer rounds: one Tokyo girls' school's transfer exam this
December sets no English paper at all, converts an Eiken grade into the
English score, and requires Eiken 準2級 (junior high) or 2級 (high school)
to apply. See transferring into private mid-year.
The paper trail matters as much as the skill: transfer and returnee rounds
ask for report cards from the previous school, with a translation if not in
Japanese or English. Keep every report, in every language.
What families do
None of this is on an official page; it is what families report works.
Keep the home language at home. This is also the handbook's advice to
parents: 家庭では、子供と母語で多くの会話をすることを勧める。
Read aloud and keep a reading log in the home language; reading is the
skill that stalls first once school is in Japanese.
A Saturday school or an online school in the home language, usually
private and priced by the provider.
Ask the ward's 国際交流協会 or an NPO whether a 母語教室 exists.
Plan the exam routes by grade 4 so the language has a target.
What to say at school
At the 面談 (mendan, parent-teacher meeting):
家では英語で話しています。日本語の学習と両立させたいので、学校でできる配慮があれば教えてください。
To ask for assessment in the home language:
母語でのDLAは実施できますか。
Tell the school your child reads and writes in the home language; the
handbook's intake sheet has a line for 家庭内使用言語.
What it costs
The school's Japanese support has no fee on the pages read. Weekend and
online programmes are private; ask for the 料金表 (fee table).
What goes wrong
The "both languages are fine" illusion until grade 6.
The school English class is treated as the plan.
The home language is dropped to help Japanese, and neither grows.
A returnee or international route is attempted with no reports, no
Eiken grade and no reading record.
What to do now
Decide which language is the home language and keep it there, daily.
Start a reading log and a folder of every report card.
Ask the 担任 whether the DLA can be run in your language.
Look at the routes above and pick a grade to aim at.
Price one weekend or online option before you need it.
Your child's dates, not the general ones
Add your child and ward. The timeline does the rest.